Dating over 70: love and company have no age limit

Is it too late to date at 70?

No. People meet partners and close companions in their seventies and eighties all the time, and it can be easier than it was at 40, because by now you know who you are and what you want. On Single 60s you set the age range you would like to meet, so your suggestions come from people at the same stage of life.

What changes is what a relationship looks like. Fewer people over 70 want to marry or move in together. More want a companion for the things they enjoy, someone to phone in the evening, to sit with at a family wedding, to travel with. Some couples keep their own homes and see each other most days. There is no right model, only the one that suits the two of you.

Getting started when you are not used to computers

The site is built to be simple. It runs in the web browser on a phone, tablet or computer, and there is nothing to install. Joining takes a few minutes, and you can ask a son, daughter or grandchild to help you set up your profile without them ever seeing your messages afterward. If you get stuck, the support team is available 24 hours a day.

Take your time over the photo. A clear, recent picture of you smiling, in good light, does more than any amount of writing. Then add a few honest lines about your life now: what fills your week, what you are curious about, and what you are hoping for. Our profile tips have examples.

Choosing the ages you want to meet

The site is open to every adult, so you choose the age range for your suggestions. Many people in their seventies set a range that runs from a few years younger to a few years older than themselves. Others are more open. Either way, the setting is yours, and you can change it whenever you like.

Family, health and the practical side

Adult children can have strong feelings about a parent dating, often because they worry about money or about someone taking advantage. Telling them early, and introducing them once things are serious, usually settles nerves. Be open about health and mobility when the time is right. Most people your age have something to mention, and saying so early saves awkwardness later. When it comes to finances and property, keep them separate unless and until you both take advice.

Staying safe

Scammers do target older people, so the rules are worth repeating. Don't send money, gift cards or bank details to anyone you haven't met, however good the reason sounds. Keep conversations on the site until you have spoken on the phone or by video. Meet in daylight, somewhere public, and tell someone where you are going. Our guide to spotting romance scams lists the warning signs, and the safety page explains the site's own protections.